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Step Through Your Looking Glass:  Uncover Your Signature Style

Step Through Your Looking Glass:  Uncover Your Signature Style

October 14, 20252 min read

The mirror shows you who you were. Style reveals who you’re becoming.”

- Joy Ruffen

“From Reflection to Radiance: How to Step Through Your Looking Glass and Uncover Your Signature Style"

Are You Dressing for Your Past… or the Woman You’re Becoming? You’ve grown. You’ve evolved. But does your reflection still tell the same old story?

In October, Step through Your Looking Glass and explore a new chapter of clarity. A clarity where your outer presence fully mirrors your inner truth. This is more than style, it’s realignment and radiance.

What Is Your “Looking Glass” Moment?


There comes a moment when the woman in the mirror feels unfamiliar. This is not because you’ve lost yourself, you've simply evolved. Now is your moment to let your signature style reflect the woman you are becoming.

This is your Looking Glass moment:

A time to pause. Reflect. And decide if your style still aligns with your growth, values, and voice.

Why Style Clarity Matters Now


For high-achieving women, appearance is often underestimated, but it actually speaks volumes before you do. When your outer presence is aligned with your evolving inner confidence, you no longer have to explain yourself. You simply show up and command the room with radiant confidence.

The power of style clarity:

  • It reduces internal friction and confusion.

  • It reinforces your leadership presence.

  • It allows you to feel liberated rather than confined by outdated garments.

  • It supports confidence in boardrooms, on stages, and in everyday moments.

It turns your wardrobe into a toolkit, not a costume.

Aligning Style With Who You’re Becoming


The most powerful style isn’t about the latest trends. It’s about your truth and how you see it.

When you dress in a way that reflects your evolving identity, your energy shifts. You speak with greater clarity. You command attention, not by force, but through magnetic alignment.

This is the essence of Signature Style:

Your outer presence mirroring your soul’s evolution.

How to Step Through Your Looking Glass


Joy’s Style Clarity Sessions are designed to help you:

  • Release outdated reflections.

  • Reclaim the colors, fabrics, and silhouettes that truly represent you.

  • Step confidently into your next chapter with a Signature Style that feels like home.

This is transformation, not just styling. Your time is now.

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Joy Ruffen

I’m Joy, a Leadership and Signature Style Specialist on a mission to ignite your passion, harness your potential, and celebrate your purpose. Together, we’ll make this next chapter of your life as empowered, vibrant, and timeless as you are!

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