What Makes A Lady Fascinating And Unique?

What makes a lady fascinating and unique? It is a great question and we need to have the answer because it is a question that men find appealing for the women that they choose. A fascinating woman is equipped with an interesting combination of both the feminine and masculine energy and, that is the biggest part of her attraction. Men love her uniqueness and her positive self-image. A lady who is a compelling woman who is attractive because she is driven by self-worth, rather than a desire to manipulate.

A lady who shows these qualities is unique, intelligent and focused on steering the course of her life in a positive direction. She is highly desirable because she believes in herself and knows that she is special. The ladies of today understand that her appearance, behavior, and way of communicating provide others with valuable insight into her character. A woman like this know that her true beauty is not acquired at a make-up counter, with a new outfit, or by following the latest Hollywood trend.

A real lady knows and understands that true beauty is first found inward and, that her real strengths are not found in trying to be like a man, but rather, in being gracious, thoughtful, kind, intelligent, and poised. The art of being a lady is relevant for today and it is accessible to every woman, young and old. The uniqueness lies in every woman, no matter who she is and what her circumstances might be. It is a quality that you don’t have to manufacture or create because it only has to be discovered, honed and admired, you’ve got it within.

When you get down to the nuts and bolts of what makes a woman special and desirable from both the male-female viewpoint here is what you’ll find. A unique and fascinating woman will possess these traits:


You won’t find them moping about anything in tier lives, instead, they don’t waste their time and energy in harboring useless emotions. They would rather be a shoulder when needed than be a constant cry baby.


Highly fascinating and unique women don’t have time for such chases because they are too busy creating a better life for themselves. That is what makes them desirable, that carefree, confident attitude. They’re complete in themselves.


Petty gossip, useless talking, and drama are for schoolgirls, not for the desirable woman that we look up to.


No posting of selfies to excess, they believe in earning attention from like-minded people, not snatching it with constant updates on the happenings in their lives. They earn respect instead of asking for it.

What also becomes a huge part of who they are let’s look at a few other characteristics. They don’t lose themselves in their relationships, they have hobbies and passions. How about fiercely intelligent and always graceful and brilliant communicators. You, if not you now, then you are in the process of becoming and that is to be applauded because we need more ladies with the qualities, traits, and characteristics listed in this article. Enjoy the journey.

Until the next time my friend, take good care and be well.



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