What’s the point of putting effort into your style of dress? Why do you or should you be mindful about dressing well and stylish? What is the point of it all you might ask and the answer will not astound you because you want the truth about it? In our society, there is nothing that you can wear that does not make some kind of statement about you whether want it or not. It is just a simple fact and the I don’t care attitude is not a sincere or truthful one.
One of the best tip for you to heed is that it can and will ward off race, class and basic stereotype thinking that people use. When you can express yourself and create a mood, or image that can be fun and ward off depression you win. Think of it somewhat like interior design yet you’re dressing your body. You can make it fun creative artsy, and somewhat like an art project. Clothing choices allows you to send out non-verbal messages to those around you about who you are at your core.
What happens is often women pretend they don’t care yet, they do. When you dress poorly with no specific design or signature it will and does affect your opportunities in life. Do look at fashion this way it can be a release and a fast and easy fun way to change your mood and you have the control of it. Here is one of the best tips with very few exceptions most in-person communications starts visually. Clothes will convey before words are spoken and say this is how I chose to be treated.
How much better you’ll feel when you are well pulled together, think about how you know that you’re looking good. When you enjoy looking good and being dressed in the best styles for you your chances are higher for success in your career or dating life. The fact is that you feel better and look better when you dress well; the secret is to be comfortable in your effort to be stylish.
Truth be told you will feel more powerful and the effort you made to feel and look good will pay you in big dividends You are worth the effort put into it.
Until the next time my friend, take good care and be well.
Joy Ruffen, AKA “Style With Joy”!
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