A lady who is looking for a real man knows that when she finds him he will be more about her complete image, not just her looks and body. A real man will value her personality, her kindness, her intelligence and who she is as a person. Will he be intimidated by your motivation to succeed no never, he will seek a woman who has her own goals and will be supportive of that goal.
Ladies look for men who have similar interest but also other interest that they can learn about or if not it will be OK. If a man wraps his entire life around you that’s a red flag, your relationship should be a great part of your life but, it does not encompass your entire life. You want a man that is direct no mind games if there is something you want to talk about he will be open to it no excuses.
Trust is a given, you to him and back to you, no snooping around and if that happens he is not the man for you under any circumstances. You want a companion that is cool, calm and collected and a man who shows you respect. Never will he ask of you something that makes you uncomfortable or will he mistreat you, he prides himself on being a gentleman.
What you seek is someone who will make you want to be the best version of yourself, without changing who you are at your core and you will look to find the same quality in him. Just as you empower those around you the same is what you seek to see in him. I love this saying from one of our favorite people “ Mark Twain” he had this to say and it fits to what we’re saying here.
“ Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great people make you feel that you, too, can become great”.
The key here is that you do the same for the man in your life it is a mutual reciprocal mindset and it works. When you empower and inspire those around you it comes back at you full circle mutual respect wins every time. Just as you have learned to adapt to all situations so will he have the ability to pick up all of the social cues and act accordingly.
A real gentleman excels in conversation and intimacy because they genuinely care and are interested in who you are as a person and not just how hot and sexy you are; that is not their mindset. He knows that strong women are ladies and sexy and being in their company intrigues him and he loves the confidence that they exude.
As a lady, you must not give up the search and don’t settle you have so much to offer and never forget that you are the queen and only the king will do.
Until the next time my friend, take good care and be well.
Joy Ruffen, AKA The Goddess Of Wealth
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