Decisions Make Up The Essence Of Who You Are Becoming!


Decisions Make Up The Essence Of Who You Are Becoming!

Your decisions start at an early age to make up the essence of who you are becoming and will be with you until the end of your life. What that statement means is that you are continually in a growing mode, and when you stay open to learning, you will always be in a state of openness to living. The well know motivational speaker “Jim Rohn” said that we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with in our lives.

When you are a leader, you are about making decisions whether a salesperson or an entrepreneur and most times a combination of the two you know this as a fact. To increase your wins, you have to be aware of how an increase in your losses is a part of the master plan. When it comes to relationships, we are significantly influenced whether we like it or not. Relationships affect our way of thinking, as well as our self-esteem, and our decisions.

We accept that everyone is their person but, research proves that we are all more affected by our environment than we think. What we know now and embrace, is that it is all well and good to be among positive, supportive people who want you to succeed but, it is also necessary to have your critics. Professionals want negative feedback so that they can make progress. The fact is the more successful you become, the more criticism you’ll face.




It takes a long time to develop mental toughness and the ability to make right decisions and stand by them, it will take several attempts to get to the point that you can brush off harsh words and continue to move forward. What you can bet on and always rely on will be your strong inner network of confidants who support you no matter what. The key to making the right and good decisions will depend on how you build and connect in your relationships.

What are some of the defining decisions that you make day in and out? One of the major reasons some people live their lives and just exist is because they have never committed to making decisions. You are here to grow, decide to learn and grow for the reason that you are here on this planet to do. Once you choose to be happy and to love you have made a powerful decision, and your life begins to change and the doors open for you to walk through. The essence of who you are will show up with your hard decisions. The effort that you make will create its rewards, and who you are at your core will be seen.

How about this, we all admire people who sacrifice, who compromise and stand tall in the face of adversity, yes? What that means for you is always to do the right thing as “Spike Lee” so long ago said in one of his movies. Luck is “occasional”, but “intent” lasts forever. Making the wrong decisions will happen from time to time but how you manage to make it right will speak to your intentions.

When you want the essence of who you are to show in your persona as a person with good values and a high regard for integrity, you will work at making excellent choices. Shortcuts, high-level decisions, quick fixes, sometimes they work but, mostly they mean that you lose the chance to spot other problems, identify solutions or find different ways to improve. When anything is quick and easy, it creates an illusion of success.

What you want is the right effort and application and, a willingness to do what others are not willing to do; that being to build the foundation for lasting success. You can talk yourself into not making the hard decisions, but in the end, you’re just rationalizing. Who you are will show to others, so it is your responsibility to ensure that the essence of who you are is spot on and true to your heart at your center.

Until the next time, take good care and be well.


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