Self-confidence is a formula that all women need and when you use the necessary steps and the ingredients that are listed here you are on your way, begin. None of us enter the world with it and no one has it all the time. Talking about it won’t help you gain it but you can get to having it in your life if you are willing to work for it. The average woman will focus on everyone but herself, so when you take the time for self-development you can gain it.
When you begin to create the belief in self and push the limits of your abilities you are opening yourself to building your confidence. You open yourself up and even at the risk of public failure and humiliation you accept that in order to grow into your best self you have to take a risk and even if you fail you grow from the experiences. Let’s look at some formulas for building self-confidence and what they will include.
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOURSELF-
This becomes the first and most important step. You can’t wait for Serendipity, you and only you can make things happen in your life.
BEGIN TO EXPERIMENT WITH LIFE –
Try something new. Take a class in an unfamiliar subject area. Testing your abilities at new endeavors is a wonderful way to learn that you can rely on yourself.
DEVELOP AN ACTION PLAN AND IMPLEMENT IT –
Select one area for both personal and professional development. Put the steps on a timeline and begin to implement each step according to your plan.
STICK WITH IT –
When you take on a new challenge, stick with it. True confidence develops from an increasing belief that you can rely on yourself to take action and follow through, no matter the results.
ACT AS IF – If you put off taking action until you have confidence, you’ll never do it. When you take action and do it with a semi balance of outward confidence, the inward, true feeling of confidence, will follow.
FIND A MENTOR –
Watch someone who is confident and continues to take risk one after another. Observe how they do it, muster up the courage and ask if they would meet you for coffee. Confident people are happy to help because they remember the courage and effort it took for them to get to where they are today. Remembering makes them open and willing to help you to reach your level of confidence.
Confident women are removing themselves from toxic communities, and relationships, because they know they will never find their voice and purpose in a setting like that. Women are starting businesses and raising brave girls and sensitive boys who respect and value women. Most of all, confident women are taking a stand against their own jealousy and pessimism and perfectionism and competitive spirits. Knowing that when they do this they are saying to the women around them and all women, you are brave, beautiful, and confident and that’s how it should be.
Until the next time my friend, take good care and be well.
Joy Ruffen, AKA The Goddess Of Wealth
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